How Close to Getting Married Are You?
By: Steven Miller
Estimated Completion Time
7 min
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About This Quiz
Some of us are ready to get married, like yesterday, while some of us need more time. Some of us are pretty close to walking down they aisle, while some of us don't want to go near it. And some of us just don't know about marriage, if we want it or when we want it. Despite how ready or unready you think you are, our quiz will tell you the things you may not be ready to admit to yourself. So are you putting on a front or are you ready to be front and center, walking to your soon-to-be spouse? Let's find out.ÂÂ
Are you already a wife or husband in your head? You're so ready that it makes waiting seem like torture. Are you OK to wait a while? You want to be married but you're not in a rush to do it. Or are you as unready as can be? If someone showed you an engagement ring today, you'd run for the hills. Which are you?ÂÂ
We know we've got what it takes to tell you the truth about how you really feel about getting married, so let's find out how ready you really are. We hope you can handle the truth!
START QUIZ
How convinced are you that your current partner is "the one"?
I'm pretty much convinced.
There's a good possibility.
Do you have a reception hall picked out?
I haven't even thought about that.
There are a couple of places that we're considering.
I definitely have a place in mind.
Yes, and I have a good idea of what their open dates are.
When you imagine your future, is your current partner there?
Lately, they do appear in my visions of the future.
My partner is in my vision of the future most of the time.
To be honest, they aren't.
How long have you been dating your significant other?
We've been together for many years.
We've been together for about a year.
It's been a few years now.
Do you have the music picked out for your wedding day?
I have a few songs that I know I want included.
I have most of the music picked out in my mind.
I haven't thought about that at all.
I have every song for every moment picked out.
Do you know who will be your best man or maid of honor?
It seems a little early to be thinking about that.
Yes, and I have already asked them.
I'm debating between a couple of choices.
I do have someone in mind, but we haven't discussed it yet.
How serious are your discussions about marriage with your significant other?
They are very specific and serious.
We talk about it pretty regularly. It's starting to get pretty serious.
It comes up from time to time, but it's not all that serious yet.
We haven't had that discussion yet.
How well do you know your partner?
I'm just getting to know them.
My partner still surprises me from time to time.
I'm very familiar with their patterns of behavior.
I know them better than I know myself.
Would you consider your partner to be your best friend?
My partner is definitely one of my best friends.
There's potential for that, but we're not there yet.
Without a doubt. We are BFFs.
Have you decided exactly where the exchange of vows will take place?
We have come to an agreement on all aspects of the ceremony.
There's still quite a bit of debate going on with that subject.
That hasn't come up in conversation.
We have agreed on where it will take place, but we're still working out some of the details of the ceremony.
Is it important to you that your partner's family likes you?
It's not that important to me.
I definitely hope they like me. I'm pretty sure they do.
I couldn't care less if they like me or not.
It is very important that we are close.
Does your partner challenge and inspire you to be a better person?
Not really. Things are pretty stagnant around here.
Yes, I feel like I grow on a daily basis.
Once in a while, but I think I'm the one who does the inspiring and challenging in our relationship.
That sounds pretty accurate, at least most of the time.
How vulnerable are you with your significant other?
Very much so. They have seen me at my most vulnerable.
I have shown some vulnerability with them, but I could let my guard down a bit more.
I don't think the level of trust is quite there yet.
Not at all. I'm not that comfortable with them yet.
Have you decided where you will go on your honeymoon?
That subject hasn't been discussed at all.
We've briefly talked about it, but that's about it.
We've got it narrowed down to a few possibilities.
Yes, we have decided on a place.
How much do you trust your partner?
They have earned my trust to a certain degree. It continues to grow over time.
I have some doubts, but I am starting to trust them more.
I trust my partner completely.
I honestly don't trust them at all.
How convinced are you that your current partner is the perfect fit for you?
It could go either way at this point.
I'm not convinced at all. There's some major questions in my mind.
There's very little doubt in my mind.
Do you make important life decisions together?
We may discuss some things, but we're still making our own major decisions.
We definitely consult each other on almost all big stuff.
Not at all. We do our own thing.
We make all significant decisions together.
Do you get envious when your friends tell you their dating stories?
Yes, I totally wish that was me.
Not at all. It makes me happy to think of my wonderful relationship.
If something really romantic comes up, I might get a little jealous.
I used to feel that way, but not anymore.
Do you think engagement pictures are annoying?
Not at all. They are wonderful.
I used to think so, but I've changed my mind.
I really don't have any emotion regarding them.
Yes, they are so annoying. Ugh.
How regularly are you in contact with your partner's family members?
We aren't in contact with each other.
Does hearing a story about your partner's ex make you jealous?
It used to, but I don't have those feelings anymore.
I'm not a huge fan of hearing those stories.
Not at all. It tends to make me laugh.
Those stories really make me angry.
Does hearing your partner do their business in the bathroom gross you out?
Nope, I hardly even notice it anymore.
I'm starting to get used to it, but it still kind of freaks me out a bit.
Everybody poops. It's not a big deal.
In an argument with your partner, are you more likely to solve it or run away?
I'm about equally as likely to run away as I am to hang in there.
It's still tempting to just walk away, but I usually stick it out.
I'll stick it out until we reach some resolution.
Do you think your partner is responsible for your happiness?
Not at all. That is my responsibility.
They have a significant impact on my happiness, but it's not totally in their hands.
Not really. Their actions can have a significant impact on my happiness, but it is mostly up to me.
Are you dreading or looking forward to the wedding?
I'm looking forward to it. I'm so excited.
I'm dreading some aspects of it, but I'm mostly really looking forward to it.
It's pretty much a mix of the two feelings.
I'm totally dreading the entire process.
Are you keeping any secrets from your partner?
There's a lot that they don't know.
I've told them some things, but not all of my secrets.
There's very little that I haven't shared with my partner.
I have told them everything. There's nothing to hide.
How aligned are you and your partner's beliefs and morals?
We differ on some minor things, but we're mostly on the same page.
There's a few things that we are off, but we do have some things in common.
We are aligned on all the major stuff.
Our beliefs are drastically different.
Do you keep having the same argument over and over again?
Nope. Once it's done, it's done.
Some old stuff will come up once in a while.
Yep, it's like our arguments are on repeat.
That may happen once or twice, but we usually resolve it on the second go.
Which motivation best fits why you are getting married?
There's some good tax and healthcare benefits to getting married.
It's an expression of our deep love for each other.
The clock is ticking. I might as well do it now.
I want to formally commit to my best friend and partner for the rest of my life.
How compatible are you and your partner sexually?
They are way more of a freak than I am.
We have a very exciting and passionate sex life.
We're still getting to know each other sexually. It's a lot of fun right now.
We are starting to explore different aspects of our sexual preferences.
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