How Healthy Is Your Relationship?

By: Kennita Leon
Estimated Completion Time
3 min
How Healthy Is Your Relationship?
Image: Shutterstock

About This Quiz

Being in a relationship isn't as easy as Instagram makes it seem. It can be likened to having a pet; it needs to be fed, taken care of, nurtured and loved. If it's neglected, abused or isn't getting what it needs, it'll die. The sad thing is that while you can clearly tell when an animal is not happy, it's harder to tell because a relationship isn't a tangible thing. And if you're like many people who love the idea of love and prefer to wear their love goggles than to see the truth, it can be hard to tell whether your relationship is healthy or not. 

Our quiz has a spectrum of results that range from you being in a very healthy relationship, to you being in a relationship that needs to end. Is your lover being attentive, responsible, faithful and respectful? Or are they being condescending, nonchalant and a cheater? We'll analyze your answers and let you know what's really going on in your relationship. 

If you're ready to find out the truth about your love life, it's time to take this quiz. The truth may be hard to hear, or in this case, read, but you need to know. 

Would you honestly say that your relationship is healthy?
Yes, very healthy
Mostly healthy
A bit unhealthy
Not the healthiest
How long have you been together?
Three to five years
One to three years
Less than a year
More than five years
How did you two meet?
Mutual friends
At work
We bumped into each other
At a party

Advertisement

How often do you guys see each other?
Every day
Every other day
Twice a week
Once a week
How honest would you say your relationship is?
Incredibly honest
We share most things.
We share some things.
We're very secretive.
How does your partner make you feel?
Giddy
Comfortable
Indifferent
Bored

Advertisement

How often does your partner make you feel special/appreciated?
Every day
Pretty often
Every now and then
Once in a blue moon
How supportive is your partner?
Extremely supportive
Pretty supportive
Somewhat supportive
Not at all supportive
What do you guys do for fun?
Cook together
Watch TV
Go on road trips
Party

Advertisement

Have you ever traveled together?
Many times
A few times
Once or twice
Never
Do you trust your partner?
Of course I do
For the most part
Not really
Not at all
Have you ever met your partner's friends?
I know all of them.
Most of them
A few of them
Just one friend

Advertisement

And what about their family?
I know everyone.
I know the important ones.
I've met a parent.
A sibling or cousin.
Would you be okay with your partner talking to their ex?
Of course I would be.
I'd like to think I would be.
Not really
Absolutely not
Has your partner ever cheated on you?
Never
Not that I know of
One time
A few times

Advertisement

Have you ever cheated on them?
No
Does kissing count?
It was only one time.
Quite a lot
Who do you go to when you you and your partner are having problems?
My partner
My best friends
My parents
My exes
Has social media ever negatively affected your relationship?
Never
A few minor squabbles
It has.
It still does.

Advertisement

Would you say that you or your partner is controlling?
Neither of us is.
I am, they're not.
They are, I'm not
We both are.
Have you ever avoided going home because of some drama?
Never
A few times
More than a few times
All the time
When you have a disagreement, how does it normally go?
We squash it right away.
Each of us goes our own way for a while.
It can get pretty tense.
It gets a lot worse before it gets better.

Advertisement

Does your partner criticize you often?
They don't at all.
Rarely
Sometimes
Pretty often
How often do you guys fight?
Rarely
Every now and then
Pretty often
All the time
How bad do the fights usually get?
They're minor.
Bad, but not too bad.
They can get pretty serious,
They're always the worst.

Advertisement

Have you ever gotten physical with each other?
Heck no!
We came close
Once
A few times
Has your partner ever degraded you in public?
Never
Once
A few times
Many, many times
And how long do you guys stop talking for?
A few minutes
A few hours
A few days
More than a week

Advertisement

How often do you feel like you should end things?
Never
Rarely
Every one and then
All the time
On a scale of one to four, where one is the least and four is the most, how happy are you right now?
4
3
2
1
How do you feel when you think of your future?
Excited
Hopeful
Indifferent
Pinned down

Advertisement

You Got: