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About This Quiz
Is having a spark and sharing wild chemistry enough to make a relationship last? While fairy tales might want us to believe so, the truth is it takes a lot more than that. Most of all, longevity takes compatibility. True love needs more than just sparks, no matter how hot and heavy those sparks are. If you're wondering if you're compatible with your partner, you've come to the right place.Â
Back to those fairy tales! While Cinderella might have found her happiness in the eyes of a guy she had just met, in real life, things work a bit differently. There are no knights in shining armor or princes randomly wandering around on their stallions, and girls are not princesses who wait around for a handsome stranger to save them—at least most of them aren't.Â
In the real world, no two people are a perfect match by default. It's normal and expected to experience difficulties and to question your relationship, especially as you get to know your partner better and start noticing the differences between the two of you.Â
In some cases, opposites attract, while in others, couples share tons of interests, but what all long lasting, loving couples share is one thing: compatibility. It can happen between two people who are the complete opposite of one another, just as it could happen between those who feel they are like twins.Â
How about you and your partner? Are you compatible? Are you ready to find out?Â
If someone asked you how compatible you are with your partner, what would you answer?
We're on the same page about the things we hold important.
We don't have that much in common, but it's working out just fine.
We're pretty compatible, but nobody's perfect. Every relationship needs work and compromises.
We're not compatible at all; we fight about everything.
Does your partner ever hang up the phone and not call you back after an argument?
No, I'm the one who does that.
Yes, they do this sometimes, and it destroys me.
They've done it once or twice, but they apologized for it.
No
Can you see yourself with this person in three years or more?
Not really
Yes, without a doubt
Maybe. I'm not sure.
It's possible.
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Do you and your partner often argue about small things?
No, we rarely ever argue about big things, let alone small ones.
It happens, but it's not like we'd kill each other over it.
Yes, every now and then
No, only about big ones
In case your partner didn't like a certain band you happen to adore, would they still go to that band's concert with you?
No way
I don't think so.
Yes, this has already happened.
Yes, I think they would to make me happy.
If you could spend a month alone together on a desert island with your partner, what would you do?
Freak out. We'd probably kill each other.
We'd probably never want to get back home.
We'd go on adventures together.
Try to finally get to an understanding about some issues we've been having
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How do you deal when something really bothers you in this relationship?
I talk to my partner about it and try to do it calmly.
We have a heated discussion that turns into an argument.
I avoid thinking about it.
I talk about it with my best friend.
Do you share the same view on finances and spending money in general?
Not really
Somewhat. I'm not sure.
Yes, we are more or less the same person when it comes to money.
Not always, and not about everything
When it comes to having children, do both of you know where the other one stands, and do you agree with each other's opinions?
Yes, we both want the same.
One of us is unsure if having children is necessary, but that might change.
I'm not sure; we haven't talk about children yet.
No, we absolutely do not agree.
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Would you say your partner is generally thoughtful when it comes to you and your feelings?
Most of the time, yes
Not really
Yes
Sometimes they are, but that's on very rare occasions.
How do you feel when your partner needs to spend some time away from you, like for a business trip or a holiday with friends?
Lonely and disregarded
I miss them, but I know they have other important things in their life, too.
I get secretly jealous of all the people they spend time with.
I'm OK; those things are normal. We're not sewn to each other.
Do you often talk about your future together?
Not as often as I'd like to
Yes, we make plans.
Not often, just sometimes
No
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When it comes to religion, how do your views match with those of your partner?
We're on the same page of the same book.
We avoid talking about religion because we know it will cause an argument.
Our ideas are similar, and though they might not be exactly the same, we're working on our differences.
This is one of the things we can never agree on.
How do you most often spend your free time as a couple?
We make love.
We don't spend much of our spare time together. We argue about it a lot.
We each have our separate hobbies we spend our free time on, and we're cool with that.
We think of something new we can do together each time.
When it comes to going out and socializing, does your attitude match your partner's?
No, one of us loves socializing and the other hates it.
We feel the same most of the time.
We argue about this constantly.
We don't feel the same, but we make compromises.
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During holiday season, how easily do the two of you decide whose family you're visiting?
Each of us visits their own family.
We often disagree on this, and it leads to massive arguments.
We spend our holidays away from our families so no one gets hurt.
We take it in turns year after year.
Are there things about your relationship you'd like to change that you haven't yet discussed with your partner?
Yes, there are many things.
No, I tell them everything.
Maybe, but I don't see a point in telling them because nothing would change.
I could think of several things.
How soon would you like to get married to this person?
I'm not sure I'd like to get married to them at all.
We're already married.
I'd do it tomorrow!
Maybe in a couple of years
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Do you sometimes get the feeling the two of you are so similar, it's surreal?
Not really
Yes, all the time!
Sometimes, yes
Similar? The two of us? Nice joke
Do you believe in real love, and if you do, do you think this is it?
I believe in real love, but I don't think this is it.
I do, and yes, it is!
I'm not sure real love exists.
I'm not sure about anything anymore.
Have you ever been troubled about how slow or how fast your relationship is going?
Yes, many times
Maybe once or twice
No, everything's as it should be.
I'm worried right now.
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How do you react to your partner's criticism?
They hardly ever criticize me, and I deal with it just fine.
We get into an argument every time.
I try to understand their point of view.
It saddens me and makes me feel unworthy.
How close are you and your partner when it comes to intimacy (hugging, kissing, cuddling)?
We hug and kiss all the time.
We're very close, but we don't act like love-fools in front of people.
We kiss every now and then.
We're not as close as I'd want to be.
Do your political views match those of your partner?
Absolutely not
Somewhat
We have our differences, but nothing drastic.
We don't talk about politics.
We're on the same page.
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Would you say you regularly laugh together as a couple?
Yes, not a day goes by without a laugh.
Sadly, no
We don't have the same sense of humor, but somehow we still laugh together a lot.
We share a giggle every now and then.
Where does this relationship stand on your list of priorities?
It's my number-one priority.
It ranks very high up there, but it's not the most important thing in my life.
It's important but not a priority.
I'm not sure.
According to you, which of the following is the most important aspect of a loving relationship?
Love
Trust
Loyalty
Compromise
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If someone asked you to describe your current feelings for your partner, what would you say?
I adore them.
I genuinely care about them, but I'm not sure it's true love.
I'm in love, but it's all still fresh.
I like them a lot.
What kind of a relationship do you have with your partner's parents?
We haven't met.
We respect each other.
We're like family.
We don't like each other much.
Are you comfortable being yourself around this person?
Yes, all the time!
No, they make me question everything about myself.
Most of the time, yes
I think so.
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